Do I Need a Ketubah?

If you’re planning a Jewish or interfaith wedding, you’ve probably asked yourself this question: do we really need a ketubah?

The Quick Answer

• In traditional Jewish weddings, a ketubah is required - it’s part of the ceremony and an important legal/religious document.

• If you’re marrying through a synagogue, you will almost certainly need one, and it’s best to discuss the specific requirements with your rabbi or officiant.

• By civil law, you don’t need a ketubah. Your marriage license is what counts in the eyes of the state.

• For many modern couples, the ketubah is chosen not out of obligation, but because it’s meaningful - a blend of tradition, art, and personal vows.

A custom ketubah featuring the couple's wedding location

Why Couples Choose a Ketubah Anyway

Even if it isn’t legally required, a ketubah adds something extremely special to both your wedding day and your marriage:

• Symbolic: A written promise of love, partnership and commitment.

• Artistic: A piece of artwork you’ll hang in your home, reminding you daily of your wedding vows. The first piece of art you will hang as a married couple!

• Traditional: A way to honor Jewish heritage, whether you’re religious or not.

• Personal: Modern ketubahs can be customized with texts and designs that reflect your values as a couple.

  
  

Your Next Step

If you’re leaning toward having a ketubah, the exciting part is choosing one that feels right for you:

• Read about the process of ordering an artistic ketubah

• Learn the ins and outs of what a ketubah is

• How to pick the perfect ketubah for your wedding

• A guide to picking your ketubah text

  
  

Final Thoughts

So, do you need a ketubah? Not by law. But if you’re marrying through a synagogue, you’ll need one - and your rabbi can guide you on the exact requirements. For many couples, beyond obligation, a ketubah adds beauty, meaning, and a deeply personal touch to their wedding day - and to their marriage long after the chuppah.