How to Choose the Right Ketubah Text for Your Jewish or Inter-faith Wedding

Your ketubah is more than just a beautiful piece of art—it’s a meaningful part of your Jewish wedding ceremony. Choosing the right ketubah text can feel overwhelming, especially if you’re not sure what your options are. This quick guide will help you understand the most common ketubah texts, what your officiant might require, and how to choose a version that reflects your love and values.

Is a rabbi officiating your wedding?

If yes, start by asking your rabbi what kind of ketubah text they require. The text will usually depend on whether your rabbi is Orthodox, Conservative, Reform, or another denomination. Some rabbis require a traditional Aramaic text, while others allow more modern or bilingual versions. You can share my ketubah text options with your rabbi to get their input.

No rabbi? You likely have more flexibility.

If your wedding is being led by a cantor, a friend, or is more personal or interfaith in nature, you can usually choose any ketubah wording that feels right to you. I offer a variety of modern ketubah texts—romantic, poetic, traditional, and secular—and you’re also welcome to submit your own custom wording for free when you order.

Questions to ask your rabbi or officiant:

To avoid last-minute surprises, ask these before ordering your ketubah:

• Is there a required text for my ketubah?

• Can the text be in multiple languages (Hebrew and English)?

• Who should sign the ketubah?

• Are there any specific formatting or content requirements?

  
  

These answers will help ensure your ketubah is approved by your officiant and formatted exactly as needed. Of course - the mockup will be reviewed by you and your officiant prior to creating the final artwork.

Who signs the ketubah?

In traditional Jewish weddings, the ketubah is typically signed by two male Jewish witnesses who are not related to the couple. Some rabbis allow additional signers—like the couple and the officiant—on an English version, but it’s best to check with them first. For modern, Reform, interfaith, or LGBTQ+ ketubahs, there’s much more freedom. You can choose the number of signers, the language(s), and even add personal vows or quotes.

All of these options—text, languages, and signature lines—can be selected directly on the ketubah order form. If you want to submit a custom text, I require it to be submitted ready-to-go in all relevant languages.

Choosing your ketubah text is a deeply personal decision, and I’m here to make it simple and meaningful. Whether you’re going fully traditional or writing your own, your ketubah will reflect your story—and I’m honored to help bring it to life.

Love,

Rachelle